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Dr Dimitra Metheniti

Paediatrician

I am writing to provide feedback following the recent online ADHD assessment regarding my son, Kaiyan. This feedback is offered constructively, with the intention of supporting shared understanding and ensuring the final report reflects the full context. This appointment was attended at a point of significant exhaustion. As a parent of a child with complex needs, substantial time, emotional energy, and personal resources have been invested over many years in seeking understanding, assessment, and appropriate support. The intention in attending this assessment was to gain clarity, guidance, and support during an increasingly difficult period. While there was calm engagement with Kaiyan and some review of history, the overall experience did not feel sufficiently grounded in the full developmental, medical, and contextual picture. Key aspects of the urgency of the referral, the cumulative impact on family functioning, and the extent of previous attempts to seek help did not appear to be fully explored. It was helpful that leg pain, dyspraxia, and a whole-child perspective were considered; however, these observations would have benefited from fuller integration of existing history and context. Discussion surrounding ADHD diagnosis and medication occurred without clear acknowledgement of the prolonged and often challenging efforts already undertaken to access support. This was particularly difficult, as it was experienced as implying that the pursuit of assessment was primarily medication-focused, rather than reflecting the reality of the situation or the breadth of concerns relating to anxiety, phobias, demand avoidance, and overall functioning. It was upsetting to hear that the low school ADHD rating was considered to limit evidence across two settings. When increased conflict between Kaiyan and his father was mentioned, the subsequent focus on punishment and physical discipline—while recognised as part of standard ADHD enquiry—was experienced as misaligned with the context in which the information was shared. The tone of this line of questioning felt difficult, particularly given the absence of any safeguarding concerns, and contributed to a sense that parental actions were being scrutinised rather than the child’s needs being explored. This experience was reminiscent of previous NHS interactions in which parental concern has been perceived as problematic rather than contextualised, including prior paediatric consultations relating to leg pain where concerns were minimised. It is also important to note that Kaiyan’s father is highly involved in his care and daily regulation needs, including carefully preparing routines such as ensuring his lunchbox is appropriately organised. During the appointment, there was limited opportunity to convey the extent of prior investigations relating to leg pain, vitamin D, dyspraxia (which has been explored and ruled out), and possible hypermobility, despite extensive engagement with GP, NHS, orthopaedic, and specialist services. Greater exploratory questioning and integration of existing reports may have supported a more complete understanding of this history. Overall, the assessment appeared to move relatively quickly towards formulation and advice-giving. For a parent already experiencing significant fatigue and pressure, this approach felt misaligned with the need for collaborative exploration and validation of lived experience. Rather than feeling supported or guided, the interaction was experienced as judgement, which contributed to feelings of inadequacy at a time when reassurance and clarity were being sought. The cumulative developmental history, current level of impact, and constraints faced by the family did not appear to be fully reflected within the appointment. The experience was consistent with interactions where parental concerns and lived expertise are positioned as secondary to professional formulation, rather than integrated as essential clinical information. Thank you for taking the time to consider this feedback.

Vision Scotland Edinburgh

Ophthalmology, Optometry

I have been very happy with my overall experience at Vision Scotland Edinburgh. The staff were both friendly and professional. I was well informed regarding my choices and the procedure. I have been thrilled with the result of the cataract surgery. I was given an appointment very soon after the referral. I would however like to let you know how I felt the experience on the day of the operation could have been improved. Firstly I was not sent the Post Op information which would have been most helpful to read before the procedure. Secondly I got very cold in theatre and was given a blanket but it did take me ages to warm up. It would have been better to have been given a blanket before the procedure started. There is a lot of cold water being used which does add to the chill. Thirdly I was not told to bring sunglasses for the journey home or to bring analogies both of which I would very much appreciated as I lived over a hour away. On the journey home I became extremely uncomfortable. Finally the roof of my mouth and tongue got a little burnt I think by the coffee as they must have been a little bit anaesthetised still when I had the coffee. The coffee however i have to say was absolutely welcome and the best thing along with the toasted teacake. I found it very reassuring to have a telephone number to call which I did use. I also very much appreciate the phone call from the nurse a couple of days post op. I hope you find the above comments of use. I do not wish to criticise as overall it was an extremely good experience and I would and have already recommended Vision Scotland. ( I did tell my neighbour to ask for a blanket!)

One Ashford Hospital

Audiology, Cardiology, + 22 more

There was a lot of confusion in regards to my follow up appointment post surgery. An appointment was booked and agreed for Monday morning, another appointment was booked for the afternoon in addition to the morning appointment, which I tried to rearrange for the following day and recieved confirmation, that appointment I found out later had not been booked and one was made for the following week, and I had called to confirm the appointment for Monday morning too. I found out later that the Monday morning appointment was cancelled but I was not told this until I arrived for the appointment early. Gill at reception was extremely helpful and was immediately on the case to help me as this was a wound check appointment. She spoke to Nikki and Bev and I was able to be seen very quickly. I appreciated all the help I was given by Gill and she helped me create my next appointment for 6 weeks time and navigate the situation well. The appointment itself was informative and very good. I believe there was a mix up with the lists for the day and it seemed to be that everyone just got confused with what appointments for me were needed to be rearranged/ cancelled. Everything was resolved quickly and calmly, and I thank everyone for their help in resolving this.

Ms Rebecca Wilson

Breast Surgeon

Having been under the care of Rebecca for 4 months now, I can honestly say the care, kindness, professionalism, advice, information she has provided has been second to none and invaluable throughout my journey, Rebecca is always reassuring happy to answer any questions and go over anything which I’m unsure of, explaining things in depth, and whilst I appreciate Rebecca has a long line of patients to see, I’ve never felt rushed and I’m given as much time as needed at each appointment, Rebecca has also performed 2 surgeries on me, and on surgery days continues to make you feel at ease, walking you through the process of what’s going to happen. I have not experienced anything negative at all whilst under Rebecca’s care.

Spencer Private Hospital Canterbury

Cardiology, Ear Nose & Throat Surgery (ENT/Otolaryngology), + 6 more

The physiotherapist seemed unconcerned by the pain I have been experiencing for nearly a year. He mentioned that I had full movement and so he was not concerned. He kept saying that he would not give me another steroid injection without acknowledging that I didn’t want one. He told me to do some exercises which he showed me how to do once and gave me no paperwork or YouTube link that might assist when I got home. I tried to ask how long I should wait before I made any further action and he said there is no more treatment. I felt like an inconvenience and wish I had gone somewhere else. I would never recommend anyone to see him again. He really made me feel small and insignificant.

Dr Masud Haq

Diabetes & Endocrinology Specialist

I am extremely happy with Dr. Masud Haq. I am on menopause therapy , it’s been over 2 years now and Dr. Haq has helped me enormously by choosing right bespoke therapy for me so I can function normally on day to day bases . My hormonal balance is perfect now, my focus and energy back to normal . Any issue I have Dr. Haq listens carefully, finds the right solution and helps me ! I feel 30 again although I am 50 years old . I should have left this review ages ago ! ! I can say with confidence that Dr. Masud Haq is an expert in menopause therapy and I am grateful I found him . Ewa L.

Moorfields Private Eye Hospital

Ophthalmology

The staff seemed very friendly and efficient in what seemed to be quite a busy little private out patient's department. I had to have quite a few test's and checks but didn't have to wait long in-between different department's. When I got to see the consultant he was very professional and explained to me exactly what my condition was, how it was affecting my vision . He then explained how he proposed to try to correct the problem, the likely time scale for the procedure, and the cost. I also felt that he was very clear to manage my expectations when the procedure does go ahead.

Mr Toby J Colegate-Stone

Orthopaedic Surgeon

My visit concerned a dislocated right shoulder. Mr. Colegate-Stone examined me and carried out a number of strength tests. He then explained the reason for the problem, referring to a model of a shoulder and an xray taken previously. He mentioned a number of possible treatments and suggested that a CT scan is necessary to clarify the situation. We would then decide on the appropriate action. During the appointment Me. Colegate-Stone was very clear and gave me great confidence in his judgement. I look forward to our next appointment on 30 Jan.

Daleswood Aesthetics

Cosmetic (Aesthetic) Medicine, Dermatology

Fantastic service and advice. Honest, friendly and very helpful whilst being extremely professional. A really good range of options and products, expertly explained and administered. Dr Denton is not only a medical professional but a lovely, caring person dedicated to helping you look and feel better. Visiting Daleswood on many occasions has really helped me with my self-confidence, physical, and mental health. There is no hard sell, and Dr Denton will only recommend what is best for you, explaining the benefits and risks if there are any.

Basuto Medical Centre

Dermatology, General Practice (GP), + 1 more

Since I joined in 2000, I have been elightened and guided every step of the journey I needed to make for and with the maintenance and improvement of my health. Dr McMichen has at all times made clear connections between any of symptoms I described and the possible pathology behind them. In addition I have always had the most considered responses to any alternatives there might have been. My experience over 26 years has left me aware of the considerable knowledge and professionalism which I have been offered on each and every visit.

MUMS - Midlands Ultrasound and Medical Services

Allergy Medicine, Breast Surgery, + 37 more

Thyroid blood test. Never been before. Autistic so some challeges : a sign on door to push would have helped, it was intimidating, couldn’t get in straight away. An area with reduced lighting to wait would have reduced my overwhelm, was very close to waiting outside. Became very overwhelmed trying to explain which test I had booked, knew there was a fault on the website. Although the situation was rectified satisfactorily, it was still an overwhelming, triggering experience.

The Coriel Clinic

Dermatology, Ear Nose & Throat Surgery (ENT/Otolaryngology), + 7 more

I am very pleased with the service I have had from everyone at Coriel Clinic.  Mr Wilkinson and his surgical team have done a wonderful operation on my foot, and I had hardly any pain afterwards.  I'm looking forward to organising to have my other foot operated on - in the autumn. The reception team are all so friendly and welcoming, and it's really nice to have such pleasant people to chat to. Thank you for all or your care.

Mr David Houlihan-Burne

Orthopaedic Surgeon

This surgeon is the business! Not only is he an excellent surgeon who has me back on my feet super quickly after years of hobbling around, but he's a genuinely nice guy. I gave managed to get into my 60s without any major operations so was apprehensive about the procedure and recovery. David immediately gave me reassurance and confidence and I couldn't be happier with how it's all gone.

Dr Dushyant Maradia

Cardiologist

I felt listened and clear explanations about my cardiac condition and treatment options were given. There is a clear plan going forward in terms of treatment that I feel comfortable and confident about. He also took careful consideration of my other health issues (ADHD), dealing with these sensitively and with understanding. I feel very grateful and reassured after my visit - thankyou.

Mr Madu Onwudike

Vascular Surgeon

I first met with Dr Onwudike in November 2025 to assess my varicose veins. I was booked in for the operation that same day, less than two weeks later. The process was smooth from start to finish on the day. I was given excellent treatment by the hospital staff both before and after the surgery and was left with clear instructions.

Dr. Sam Smith

Gastroenterologist

Dr Smith has been a pleasure to be seen by. He’s professional, thoroughly knowledgeable and very kind and caring, a most excellent bedside manner. Dr Smith also performed the colonoscopy on me today and my whole experience here was very positive and left me feeling like I was in the very best of hands.